How Not to be Chum Looking for a Job After 40

by Jessica Miller-Merrell on May 2, 2010

Have you ever noticed how once you hit 40 (or it seems so to some), there are young vicious sharks swimming around you on your search for work? They act friendly, but you just KNOW that they are circling and waiting to have you for lunch. I’d like to give you a few tips on how to keep the sharks at bay¦

  1. Never and I mean NEVER use the word old to describe yourself. Good grief, if you’re not 80 you’re not old to begin with and need slapped upside the head just for saying it. Saying that you’re getting old is like opening a wound and dripping blood in the water. Stop it!
  2. Feeling squishy and slow among your 12 year old coworkers? Let me break it to you¦ Watching American Idol while eating chips and playing couch potato isn’t going to advance you career, only your waist. Get up off your butt and get active.
  3. And if you try to get active and suddenly EVERYTHING hurt¦ Get over it! It will! I don’t know how many people give up after the first time they exercise simply because it hurts. Don’t overdo it, but don’t mosey through the neighborhood without breaking a sweat and call that enough. Sweat, baby, sweat!
  4. When you do exercise, listen to something upbeat. Smooth jazz may keep you from getting violent on the drive home, but goodness it will do NOTHING for a workout. Think of it this way, if the music can cause your pulse to pick up just listening or watching the video, imagine what it can do for a workout.
  5. Another don’t is the constant complaining about the younger former bosses and fellow workers¦ It makes you look like the curmudgeon of the office and like you should be saying something like When I was a kid, we walked 10 miles to school, uphill, both ways. Complaining gets you nowhere, fast!
  6. Understand that you should be at the top of your game and you’re never too old to take classes and seek professional development. The only way to stay on top is to be a continuous student.
  7. And finally¦ Be active in your community and make a difference in lives. There’s a much bigger world than just the only you live in. Look out for more than just you and your own. This keeps you active, your resume current, and an impact that can advance or build a career.

Follow these guidelines and not only will you stand a chance with the sharks, but you might just become a force to be reckoned with (instead of sleeping with the fishes).

Like what you see?  Vote for Angela’s blog post by leaving a comment so she can win a $100 gift card and be named the winner of the Job Search Blogger Contest.

Angela Current, CPRW is a Certified Resume Writer/Career and Interview Coach offering no nonsense approach to job searching and career advice, as well as serving as a freelance writing fiend on a number of topics. A cancer survivor that has a heart for those job hunters with unusual circumstances, like survivors returning to work and the 50+ worker. Love a challenge!

 

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Carole Hicks May 3, 2010 at 4:30 am

Angela gets my vote! She has been instrumental in helping me focus on putting my best foot forward via revised resume and online presence. She is an inspiration to all of us. Her advice in this post is spot-on!

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Lana Wiese May 3, 2010 at 4:30 am

Way to go Angie .. great blog ..

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shanna moore May 3, 2010 at 4:56 am

Great read with intersting/helpful information! If more people followed these suggestions in general the work place would be much better as well.

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Tiffany Odutoye May 3, 2010 at 5:04 am

Totally love this post! It’s real. It’s funny. It kept my attention. Honestly, I had to rethink my behaviors. As women, we may be accustomed to not revealing our age, unless we think there is some advantage, but in the job market, it’s best to just be hip and smart. Forget, the “been there, done that twenty years ago” tone. This is a new age, and one must keep up.

Thanks Angela for the reminders!

Tiffany O.
http://www.twitter.com/virtualpartner

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RuthAnn Hogue, Phoenix, Arizona May 3, 2010 at 5:45 am

Great advice, Angela. It’s common sense, but we all need reminders.

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Deb Kolaras May 3, 2010 at 6:36 am

Sound advice, Angela indeed takes my vote. Age is something you can allow to hold you back or move you forward and it truly IS all in your head and your attitude.

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Odessa Bowser May 3, 2010 at 7:23 am

Great work Angie. Absolutely the best. With pointers like those, the job interview will be a success.
Odessa

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Dennis ("Coach Chic") May 3, 2010 at 1:09 pm

You’re right-on with that stuff, Angela!

As a matter of fact, because 40-something is far behind me now, I want to suggest that all you’ve said goes for ANYONE who would like to remain active and working — even if you are 60, 70 or 80!

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linda May 3, 2010 at 2:15 pm

angie gets my vote, wonderful information, great job!!!!

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linda May 3, 2010 at 2:15 pm

angie gets my vote, wonderful information, great job!!!!

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linda May 3, 2010 at 2:15 pm

angie gets my vote, wonderful information, great job!!!!

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Brad Lovett May 3, 2010 at 2:40 pm

There’s a lot you can do to not age yourself, but sometimes its harder to avoid letting cultural references (like knowing who the Beatles were and not recognizing the latest hip hop song) slip in to conversation. I guess there’s one self at work and maybe the authentic self must be buried in a deep dark hole.

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Deloris May 3, 2010 at 3:36 pm

Great piece! I love the way you make me “think” about things! You get my vote! :-)

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Sarah Stanley May 3, 2010 at 4:44 pm

My vote is for Angela! Love the advice. Keep up the great work!

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Cheryl Phillips May 3, 2010 at 5:42 pm

Sage advice, Angela!

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Justin May 3, 2010 at 5:44 pm

You got my vote!

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Betty Jones May 3, 2010 at 7:20 pm

Wow I say you did a wonderful job. Keep up the good work.
Betty J.

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Edward May 3, 2010 at 11:11 pm

I love this blog.Thoughtful ideas!!

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Lana May 4, 2010 at 7:53 am

What a good read and food for thought … keep them coming

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Charissa Cowart May 4, 2010 at 9:27 am

I vote for Angela!!! She is amazing at what she does!! And super helpful :)

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Marianne Boyles May 4, 2010 at 10:45 am

Way to go Angela!

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ray hartley May 4, 2010 at 5:39 pm

i finally found it and it was well worth it…also fun

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Brian May 4, 2010 at 9:29 pm

A vote for Angela

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Lana May 5, 2010 at 9:08 am

The folks who read this will be going .. oh my she is right

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Angela Pollard May 5, 2010 at 9:32 am

Great bits of advice here. Angela gets my vote. I’m handing my application for a new job on Friday and reading this just gives me the boost I need to know I’m doing some really great things already!

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Deloris May 5, 2010 at 7:39 pm

LOVE this piece, you get my vote!

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Edward May 6, 2010 at 3:55 pm

good insight, very helpful

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Lana May 7, 2010 at 4:04 am

Love the blog .. but LOVE the picture of the shark .. let’s not be afraid to go into the water .. Angie’s novel approach really makes one think ..

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Ed May 7, 2010 at 11:42 pm

good advise, very helpful

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Lori May 8, 2010 at 6:05 am

Great Job Angie! You are tops!

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Barb May 8, 2010 at 3:24 pm

I think this is the greatest. Great job.

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Barb May 8, 2010 at 3:27 pm

Best in all words you can say. Good job.

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Doc Detty May 8, 2010 at 3:37 pm

I think this is the greatest. Great job.

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Barb May 8, 2010 at 3:42 pm

Keep up the good work. Thats my kin of fish

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Barb May 8, 2010 at 3:45 pm

Kssep up the good work that’s my kind of fish

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Barb May 8, 2010 at 3:46 pm

Keep up the good work. That’s my kind of fish

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Eddie May 9, 2010 at 12:35 pm

Now I know, I the Chum. Good advise

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Deloris May 10, 2010 at 3:00 pm

Keep writing these good articles… I enjoy reading them! :-)

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Cindy C. May 10, 2010 at 3:07 pm

Great post! I went to a job fair with the resume Angela did for me and the man who was sitting there all day giving tips to people on their resumes…said he had nothing to say to me, it was great just the way it was. Excellent example, he said…and started showing it to the others sitting at nearby tables. He also said it was the best one he saw all day. You know your stuff, Angela!!

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Marsha Keeffer May 14, 2010 at 10:18 pm

Nice work on this…people really do need to stop thinking they should be recycled after 40. The whole concept is ridiculous! Thanks Angela!

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Laurie Vosters June 23, 2010 at 9:54 am

The contest is probably over, but Angela’s post is a perennial winner all the same. At 47 and newly unemployed, she’s given me some useful pointers.

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